The Caskey Family

On Our Way!
January 6, 2012, 11:12 pm
Filed under: Faith Baptist Emporium, Pictures, Seminary

Louisville is behind us, our seminary journey has come to an end and career-ministry has begun!  God has been good to us.  Tonight we have stopped on the road on our way to Emporium, Pennsylvania.  We made it more than 2/3 the way there even though we didn’t start driving until after noon.  No traffic, safety, good weather, clear roads, happy children, what more could a momma ask for on a road trip?  Jeremy is driving the 26-foot U-Haul with our earthly belongings, Elijah rode with him and I lead the way with Merry and Micah in the minivan.  

Though we’ve moved now 8 times in our marriage, this is the first time we have not had the luxury of the military moving us.  I do have to say, though, that if you have to do it yourself (DITY as they call it in the military) the best place to move from is seminary housing in Louisville, Kentucky!  We had more than 30 people come help us load the U-Haul on Sunday afternoon and the entire truck was loaded and packed in about 2 1/2 hours total.  It was fun to watch. . .we are blessed so far beyond what we deserve!  We didn’t have to leave a single item behind and I am excited to see how it will all fit into the house next to the church (definitely much more room than the 2-bedroom apartment we’ve been snuggled into together for the last few years!)

The saddest part of this day was leaving my brother (and now like a son to me) Jonathan behind.  He is on the edge of turning 18, has a great job, friends, a place to live and a church that loves him very well.  I couldn’t have asked for a better situation for him to “leave the nest” but it was still so sad for us.  I cried my eyes out.  I love that young man with such a big part of my heart, and though I am so proud of how he is living his life, I still wish we could hang onto him physically a little longer.  But he knows I’d say that even if he was leaving the nest at 35!  The children keep asking for him, and he is already sorely missed, although I’m sure he’s enjoying sleeping in later, staying up later and having a quieter environment 🙂

Here he is after playing soccer with Elijah and some of his friends


All I could talk about the last few days was how everyone of our friends should come visit us and see what God is doing in Emporium!  


I need to head to bed – everyone else is out and we have a few hours of driving left tomorrow, then unloading the U-Haul, YAY!!! The church there has arranged for a moving crew of able-bodied men to help with the job, so we are already so blessed, and Miss Dottie has sloppy joes in the crock pot to serve the men and us.

It will probably be a few days before I can update, but hopefully I will get some pictures up here too.

Please keep praying that we will bring glory to God and honor to HIS name as we begin this next chapter of our lives! Also, please pray for our children as they will be adjusting to a very different life.

Waiting CAN be Fun!
October 25, 2011, 6:40 pm
Filed under: family news, Ministry, Seminary

I remember time crawling by when I was a youngster. Now I smile when my children think that 60 days ’til their birthday is an eternity, or that waiting a few hours until their friend is available to play is pure torture.

Just like I smile over my children, I think God must be smiling over our family as we learn patience in a new way these days. Over the course of one day, we get asked many times what our plans are after seminary, or if we have heard anything final from any of the churches we have explored ministry opportunities with. I’m glad people ask. It means that they are concerned for us, and are interested in God’s work in our family.

However, we still wait.

I have been convicted over the last few weeks to wait with joy, to revel in the process, be faithful in the tasks God has given us now, and to not take something (even in my mind) that God has not given us yet. We fight against pride and presumption – which is easy to do at times when we are tempted to predict an outcome of this process.

It hit me the other day that even after Jeremy takes a ministry position (if God so chooses to bless us with one) I will need to do some of the same things I’m struggling to do faithfully now. I might as well learn in these days to do more faithfully the “little” things I have been assigned now. . .like cleaning my house, decluttering, purposefully spending time with friends, sharing Jesus more boldly, reading my Bible, praying fervently and constantly. . .the list goes on.

Funny how the solution I’m finding to my own struggle to wait is the same solution I give my children when they struggle to wait a few hours for a playdate: do something!

So I’m off – to meditate on Romans 8, declutter a closet, pack a few boxes and wrap some birthday gifts for Micah who turns three in a few days. I guess waiting CAN be fun!

Preserve My Life. . .
October 1, 2011, 7:33 am
Filed under: Discipleship, family news, Friends, grief, Jeremy, Ministry, Seminary

“Teach me O LORD, to follow your decrees; then I will keep them to the end. Give me understanding, and I will keep your law and obey it with all my heart. Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight. Turn my heart toward your statutes and not toward selfish gain. Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life according to your word.” Psalm 119:33-37

This morning I wake up to sad news. One of the most godly men I have ever known in my life has been diagnosed with brain cancer. This man and his wife ministered to my family spiritually at times when others didn’t know how to. They loved us, taught deep truths, prayed for us and did the hard things God calls some church leaders to do.

In a nutshell, “Uncle Neil,” as us children called him, buried my mother, baptized my brother, married Jeremy and me, and took a hard (but necessary) stand of church discipline with one family member. Some of my earliest discipleship as a believer came from his wife as she was my prayer partner, and from him as our family’s pastor when I most needed solid Biblical teaching.

The longer I am a Christian, and the more I spend time with God in His word and with the Church, the more I realize that “preserve my life” means more than “God, keep me alive.” This last verse (37) is one of Jeremy’s favorites, and I find it fitting as I reflect on the impact a very godly man has had on our family. Though I beg God to “preserve his life” now that I know he has cancer, God HAS ALREADY preserved His life according to HIS word. Uncle Neil is not perfect (I’m sure his wife or son could give examples) but God has preserved Him spiritually and given him a long ministry not just to our family but to many others. And though his body may not last as long as we would really like, the effect of his life and faithful obedience even in the hard things will be serving the Kingdom far beyond what he can see.

I can’t help but find this a bit poignant as we set out in ministry. We didn’t expect to be here. But God expected it. He planned it. And in HIS great mercy, He has given us godly men like Neil, and Frank, Chris, Jim and so many others who have discipled us and been tools in the hand of Almighty God to shape us into instruments for HIS glory. We are thankful. And humbled. May we be found faithful, and may God see fit to also preserve US according to His word.

September 20, 2011, 9:21 pm
Filed under: Pictures, Seminary

From the recent Fall Festival on Campus – we got to visit NARNIA!! Also pictures from our family reunion in Tennessee, and fun with family and friends around Louisville.

August 26, 2011, 1:41 pm
Filed under: children, family news, Seminary

I was challenged recently at a retreat by the wife of a professor to evaluate how much I am promoting myself or my family. As she said, “just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you should” (promote yourself). I guess, along with how involved we have been in living REAL life, I’ve let the blogging slip for the summer. I’m going to make an effort to keep the bragging (self-promotion) down but still keep you all updated on the work of God in our lives.

I have lots of pictures to post (and I don’t intend to quit doing that) but it’s just not terribly high on my list of things to do as I homeschool three, support Jeremy in his last semester in seminary and enjoy being a part of this journey God is taking us on.

I know the big question many of you have is what are you all doing after seminary? GREAT question! We don’t exactly know at this point, so please pray for us and drop us a phone call, we do really like to hear people’s live voices! Our phone number is still 843-819-1332.

Much love to you all, and I’m sorry for the long silence!

Contentment Examination – Part I – My Perspective
February 3, 2011, 3:00 pm
Filed under: Discipleship, Seminary

Some days I struggle with being content. One day it’s about a certain aspect of mommyhood, another day it’s about wifehood, womanhood, or just life in general. I become overambitious about changing my circumstances and I often try to find my own way out.

After a recent bout of discontentment, and a search of the scriptures, I made a list of questions (16 total, I’ll just share a few today) to ask myself the next time I’m feeling unhappy, “in a rut,” grouchy, unhappy, or any other word I use to describe my discontent heart.

1. Am I remembering that I am a sinner, living in a sinful world surrounded by sinful people?
(Isaiah 64:6-7 Ps. 51:5, Romans 5:8)

2. Have I removed idols in my life (an idol is something I will sin to get or sin if I don’t get)?
(Deuteronomy 32:16, James 4:1-2, Col 3:5 and 1 Cor. 10:14)

3. Have I been praying about the issue?
(James 1:5 and James 5:13)

4. Am I overlooking offenses (if needed)
(Proverbs 19:11 and Ephesians 4:2)

5. Am I speaking the truth (to myself, always, and to others if needed)
(Eph 4:25)

6. Have I submitted my heart to the sanctification God is doing in me through this circumstance?
1 Peter 1:6-9 says, “In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ; and though you have not seen Him, you love Him, and though you do not see Him now, but believe in Him, you greatly rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, obtaining as the outcome of your faith the salvation of your souls.

“Joy inexpressible” is the part I’m asking God to help me figure out!! It’s coming, though, as I see the struggles as NECESSARY for my faith and worth the result: joy in the process, the salvation of my soul and God’s glory all along!

Jeremy Preaches at Northgate in Pittsburgh
January 4, 2011, 11:08 am
Filed under: Info/Resources, Jeremy, Seminary

Here’s a link to Jeremy’s most recent preaching opportunity.  Northgate is the church his family attended when they lived in Pittsburgh at various times while Jeremy was growing up.

Sweet people and such a joy they were to worship with!

“Take Care How You Build” 1 Corinthians 3:10-17

Simple Joshua 1:8 Goals

“Do not let this Book of the law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night so that you may be careful to do everything written in it.  Then you will be prosperous and successful.”  Joshua 1:8

Over the years I have not always been consistent to give priority time to God in disciplined reading, prayer and meditation on the Bible.  Some recent questions from some other seminary wives have driven me back to God’s word for some goals/ideas/ways to grow in this discipline.  For whatever they are worth, here are some thoughts that were shared (and this is NOT all-inclusive. . .just some ideas!)

Simple Goals for Growing in Personal Time with God

  1. Avoid legalism (especially about format, time, location, etc) but be compelled by love to spend more time with God (1 John 4:19)
  2. Try something and do what works (1 Thess. 5:21)
  3. Look for idle/idol spent moments (things that waste time, or things that you would rather do than read your Bible or pray) and change how you spend them or don’t do those things until you have spent time with God (1 Thess. 5:14)
  4. Read, meditate, pray and apply (James 1:22-25 and Psalm 1) Allow God to CHANGE you by going that tiny step further by meditating and applying what you read.
  5. Ask God for hunger, thirst and a willing spirit (James 1:5, Mt. 5:6 and Psalm 51:12)
  6. Meditate on God’s love, character and works – this can make you long for more  (Ps. 103, 116, 111, Isaiah 55, if you need a place to start)
  7. Ask yourself if you have made a habit of starving yourself so badly by neglecting time with God that you don’t even know what you are missing anymore.  Reverse the pattern and make yourself hungry  by reintroducing spiritual food.
  8. Seek godly accountability (Proverbs 13:20, Eccl. 4:9-12)

Thank you Lindsay and Rebekah for helping me with this!!  Other questions, suggestions or ideas?  Please comment!!

Ordained Days
October 12, 2010, 2:55 pm
Filed under: Seminary

The what-if questions are so easy to ask.  So easy to find myself spiraling down with. . .down to LOTS of lies. We live near a street that people go pretty fast on.  We went camping with a campfire that someone could have toppled into this weekend.  My children eat things every few hours that they could choke on.  We have two toilets that they could drown in (it does happen, I’m not making this up.)

Philippians 4:8 tells me to dwell on things that are true, noble, right.  So what do I do if I find myself thinking about all the bad things that could happen to my children, or others I love?  Do what I know is wise and safe, of course, then trust God, not myself, or my efforts (even my best efforts are nothing compared to what God does in protecting us!)

For the days I find myself thinking too often (or worrying) about the safety of those I love, some encouragement from God Himself: Ecclesiastes 8:8a “No man has power over the wind to contain it, so no one has power over the day of his death,” and Psalm 139: 16:b “All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.”  And the clincher: Matthew 6:27 “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?”

Pray.  Breathe.  Thank God for HIS sovereign care over us all.  He gave you that breath you just took.  He could have stopped your heart or lungs, but He didn’t!  Thank God for HIS goodness.  It’s the best medicine for the worrying heart.

Together for the Gospel 2010 Recap
April 20, 2010, 4:34 pm
Filed under: Adina, Jeremy, Ministry, Seminary | Tags: , , ,

This past week Jeremy and I were able to attend a conference about the Gospel.  There were amazing speakers and great encouragement.

You can hear any of the speakers here at the T4G Website Resource link

We loved getting all the books. . .we have an extra set, so if you are hankering for a particular title, we may have an extra to give away. . .drop us a comment and if it hasn’t been given away and you promise to read it, we would be happy to oblige!

T4G 2010 BooksT4G 2010 Books