The Caskey Family

News from Utah
October 8, 2014, 10:28 pm
Filed under: children, family news, homeschool, Jeremy, Utah

Such a boring title, however, somehow it just doesn’t seem fair to give any one of the events of the past few months the honor of the title of a blog over another.  As if homeschooling, or traveling or life back in the military, or any recent event deserves the title more than the other.

Our God has been faithful to confirm the call that Jeremy felt starting last year to return to the Air Force over and over since we began our journey out West here to Utah.

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Here is some of the beautiful country we drove through on our way here:

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Within hours of arriving on base, after a sweet long trip across country visiting friends and family (after a hectic DITY – Do-it-yourself move, AKA “the best way to find out how much you really can do in 48 hours”) we were assigned a perfect house on base, next to neighbors with children our kids’ ages, and even a few homeschooling families.  Within minutes of getting keys, the children had all assigned rooms.  Elijah got the smallest room with a view of the Great Salt Lake and the mountains in the West, so he can watch the sun set from his bedroom window – AMAZING!!  (Yes that is his screen. . .another story and another blog about that sometime soon.)

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We prayed hard (it wasn’t long, we really didn’t have long before school started) about what to do about school for our children, we decided to homeschool again.  In another blog I will share more about that for those who wish to be tortured with all the fun details!  Simply put, we are LOVING it to no end!

Jeremy has been able to stay busy and is adjusting well to life back in active duty.  He preaches most Sundays at the Chapel, which he has been most thankful for, and has met some godly men who he can learn from and grow with.

We are learning a lot about the culture here, as it is predominately and historically Mormon.  We are so thankful that we serve a God who does not live in temples built by human hands, and who is not limited in His work by our ideas or understanding!  My heart has grown more thankful in the recent months for the grace and mercy of God . . .

Until next time, grace and peace.

Friends and Family!
August 12, 2013, 8:53 am
Filed under: Ahlgren, family news, Friends

Photos of friends and family!!  We are truly blessed!!!

The majority of the photos are from a recent trip to Wisconsin for the beautiful wedding of my baby sister Risa to an amazing man Stephen.

If you wish to download a copy of any photo, just click on the photo and then drag the large file onto your desktop.

This first photo is of Risa and all her sisters (bio, foster and in-law), the second is Risa and Stephen having their last hug NOT as husband and wife on the night before their wedding.

The third photo is of Risa’s sisters and friends who attended her bachelorette party the night before her wedding.

The photo fourth from the bottom is a photo of seven out of the eight Ahlgren siblings.


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Photo Update
May 19, 2013, 7:56 pm
Filed under: children, family news, Pictures

So here the children are doing some of their favorite things lately: being superheroes, reading, cooking, being goofy with the cousins and playing soccer.


They Seem to Love This
July 14, 2012, 7:59 pm
Filed under: family news, Pictures

“They seem to love this. . .” This is one of our family sayings when someone does something unexpected, unusual or a little crazy and the response is unexpectedly positive (usually uncontrollable laughter).

So once in a while I post an update in the form of pictures, and our followers. . .yes. . . they seem to love this. . .so here we go again:

I love the sun on the water in these pictures of Elijah and his cousin Josh. They are playing in the “crik” across from our house one beautiful morning last week. These pictures are un-touched, since the light was perfect, there was no need:

Here are the children with two of the cousins by the dam they built in the creek together:

Some photos from our recent family relaxation vacation on Lake George:

At the overlook over Fort Ticonderoga. . .absolutely beautiful and amazing fort:

Two of the happiest, most blessed beings on earth!

The Details
March 16, 2012, 8:22 pm
Filed under: Faith Baptist Emporium, family news

Psalm 139 verses 1 and 17 says, “O Lord, you have searched me and known me!  How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!  How vast is the sum of them!” 

When we were seeking God’s will for our place in full-time career ministry, I have to say I struggled with worry.  Not worry that God would provide, but worry that we might not go the right place. 

Since moving here, God has proven Himself as a God who KNOWS us through and through.  We had no idea how right this town, this church, these people were for us.  We joked when we came to interview here that we could move here because they had a really good pizza place.  You know pizza is pretty important!  We joked because we knew that if God had chosen for us to serve here, HE would work out the details.  HE would make sure we were cared for.  I just did not fathom HOW well and how perfectly the God who made us would lovingly and carefully show us His providential care. 

I’ve already shared on this blog about the provision of school for the children, friends for us and our children, a loving body of believers to worship with and love fervently and deeply.  I can truly say that our church has become like family to us.  But the details. . .oh, the details that God has orchestrated that meet our needs and many of our quirks and desires. 

Tonight was no exception. 

One of Jeremy’s favorite treats is a cherry-dipped ice cream cone.  He used to get them from Dairy Queen, but it seems that in the last several years, he hasn’t been able to get them anywhere!  The last few places we’ve lived, he’s given up on even trying ice cream shops any more.  He doesn’t even ask.  So when we candidated here, we noticed a little ice cream shop downtown.  It was closed up for the winter, but I said, to Jeremy, “we’ll have to go down and see if they have cherry-dipped cones when they open in the spring.”  He dismissed me, saying that if we couldn’t find a cherry-dipped cone in big towns nowadays, there was no way they would have them in this little town.

It has warmed up enough even here in the mountains for ice cream, so tonight we took the children down and got some really yummy CHEAP soft serve.  When we got to the window, Jeremy asked the lady, “do you have dipped cones?”  “Yes,” she said, “chocolate and cherry.”  I about jumped through the window to hug her! 

God in his goodness has given us something we did not even ask Him for.  Who would think to ask God for a cherry-dipped cone?  I didn’t, but He gave anyway. 

Thankful tonight for a God who knows every personal detail of our hearts and delights to show His goodness to us in ways our particular human heart can recognize. 

Matthew 26:25-32 “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin,yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.”

Emporium, Pennsylvania or BUST!
December 21, 2011, 7:58 pm
Filed under: Faith Baptist Emporium, family news, Ministry

The waiting is over!! We are so thankful for your prayers for us in the search process! After spending about four days in Emporium, PA, Jeremy was unanimously voted on and called to this small, sweet Southern Baptist congregation in the rural mountains of north-central Pennsylvania.

This evening, Jeremy accepted the call to pastor Faith Baptist Church in Emporium, PA. The town population is about 2500 total and about 47% claim Catholicism as their religion. Though it is a call to pastor, we feel that this is a precious opportunity for us to be missionaries also.

As with any move, there will be adjustments for our family and lots of hard work, so your continued prayers are appreciated. To God be the glory!

Pictures coming soon. . .

Simple Thanks – Easy Menu and Homemade Cranberry Sauce!
November 23, 2011, 11:23 am
Filed under: family news, Info/Resources, Recipes

Psalm 105:1 says, “Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done.” May your heart be drawn to give simple thanks for the greatest gift of Jesus Christ and the uncountable lesser blessings.

Here’s our menu for Thanksgiving. . .a few more sides will be added by a friend tomorrow:
(I’ll add links as I find them)
* Herb-Brined Turkey
* Sweet Potatoes in Orange Cups
* Mashed Red Potatoes
* Gravy
* Cranberry Orange Sauce (details below)
* Green Bean Casserole using only half the butter and with homemade onion rings on top
* Pecan Pie with whipped cream
* Pumpkin Roll

I just finished making homemade cranberry sauce for the first time, and HAD to say it was SOOO easy and I will never open another can of that stuff again!

This took all of four ingredients and 20 minutes! I got the idea from this blog.

1 bag of fresh cranberries, washed and bruised ones removed
1/2 cup orange juice
3/4 cup of sugar (more or less to your taste)
a few dashes of cinnamon (til it tasted right to me)

Throw all the ingredients in a saucepan on the stove, bring to a boil and simmer and stir for 10-15 minutes.


Waiting CAN be Fun!
October 25, 2011, 6:40 pm
Filed under: family news, Ministry, Seminary

I remember time crawling by when I was a youngster. Now I smile when my children think that 60 days ’til their birthday is an eternity, or that waiting a few hours until their friend is available to play is pure torture.

Just like I smile over my children, I think God must be smiling over our family as we learn patience in a new way these days. Over the course of one day, we get asked many times what our plans are after seminary, or if we have heard anything final from any of the churches we have explored ministry opportunities with. I’m glad people ask. It means that they are concerned for us, and are interested in God’s work in our family.

However, we still wait.

I have been convicted over the last few weeks to wait with joy, to revel in the process, be faithful in the tasks God has given us now, and to not take something (even in my mind) that God has not given us yet. We fight against pride and presumption – which is easy to do at times when we are tempted to predict an outcome of this process.

It hit me the other day that even after Jeremy takes a ministry position (if God so chooses to bless us with one) I will need to do some of the same things I’m struggling to do faithfully now. I might as well learn in these days to do more faithfully the “little” things I have been assigned now. . .like cleaning my house, decluttering, purposefully spending time with friends, sharing Jesus more boldly, reading my Bible, praying fervently and constantly. . .the list goes on.

Funny how the solution I’m finding to my own struggle to wait is the same solution I give my children when they struggle to wait a few hours for a playdate: do something!

So I’m off – to meditate on Romans 8, declutter a closet, pack a few boxes and wrap some birthday gifts for Micah who turns three in a few days. I guess waiting CAN be fun!

October 18, 2011, 7:29 pm
Filed under: family news, Jonathan

We have a high school graduate in the house!!! Jonathan just took his final for his final course in high school! The last Ahlgren graduated from HIGH SCHOOL!!!

So excited for the next step in Jonathan’s life. . .

To be continued. . .

Preserve My Life. . .
October 1, 2011, 7:33 am
Filed under: Discipleship, family news, Friends, grief, Jeremy, Ministry, Seminary

“Teach me O LORD, to follow your decrees; then I will keep them to the end. Give me understanding, and I will keep your law and obey it with all my heart. Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight. Turn my heart toward your statutes and not toward selfish gain. Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life according to your word.” Psalm 119:33-37

This morning I wake up to sad news. One of the most godly men I have ever known in my life has been diagnosed with brain cancer. This man and his wife ministered to my family spiritually at times when others didn’t know how to. They loved us, taught deep truths, prayed for us and did the hard things God calls some church leaders to do.

In a nutshell, “Uncle Neil,” as us children called him, buried my mother, baptized my brother, married Jeremy and me, and took a hard (but necessary) stand of church discipline with one family member. Some of my earliest discipleship as a believer came from his wife as she was my prayer partner, and from him as our family’s pastor when I most needed solid Biblical teaching.

The longer I am a Christian, and the more I spend time with God in His word and with the Church, the more I realize that “preserve my life” means more than “God, keep me alive.” This last verse (37) is one of Jeremy’s favorites, and I find it fitting as I reflect on the impact a very godly man has had on our family. Though I beg God to “preserve his life” now that I know he has cancer, God HAS ALREADY preserved His life according to HIS word. Uncle Neil is not perfect (I’m sure his wife or son could give examples) but God has preserved Him spiritually and given him a long ministry not just to our family but to many others. And though his body may not last as long as we would really like, the effect of his life and faithful obedience even in the hard things will be serving the Kingdom far beyond what he can see.

I can’t help but find this a bit poignant as we set out in ministry. We didn’t expect to be here. But God expected it. He planned it. And in HIS great mercy, He has given us godly men like Neil, and Frank, Chris, Jim and so many others who have discipled us and been tools in the hand of Almighty God to shape us into instruments for HIS glory. We are thankful. And humbled. May we be found faithful, and may God see fit to also preserve US according to His word.